Get over it!

My very nature makes me want to fix things for other people, but I know in some ways it is not necessarily a good thing. The challenge we have recently faced keeps rising back up in my face and I keep trying to negotiate a different outcome (in my head). What should I do? Maybe this person could fix it? We can't settle for this. I'm a work in progress and I know God is listening. I'm letting it go. God gave me this and I had to repeat it over and over, but I am catching on. Thank you.
Proverbs 17:9,"He who covers over an offense promotes love, but whoever repeats the matter separates close friends." (NIV)